We loved each other, but we just couldn't seem to get on the same page. One of us needed more space, the other felt all alone, and when we tried to talk about it, we'd go 'round and 'round, get defensive with each other, and end up doing more harm than good. It got to the point where we just weren't sure if the tension in our relationship was fixable. We worked with a therapist to see if we could improve things, but she just did a lot of listening and we stayed stuck.

We were ready to give up when we started our Reset, but within our first two sessions, Kim opened our eyes to each other in a way we hadn't even known we needed. We discovered very quickly that we both actually wanted the same things – to be close, to feel loved, to feel safe. Once we got on the same team, our defenses dissolved, we stopped pushing against each other, we started listening. We never imagined this closeness between us could be so beautiful, but thank goodness we didn't give up on our love.