HE TRUTH ABOUT LOVE THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING.
THE TRUTH ABOUT LOVE THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING.
For most of my life, I thought love was supposed to feel easy when it was “right". But even in the best relationships, I found myself caught in the same cycles – trying to keep the peace, over-giving, or shutting down to avoid conflict. I was successful, capable, and loving, but somehow… still walking on eggshells (and blaming my partner).
I tried all the traditional advice: better communication tools, conflict resolution methods, therapy – but I stayed stuck and super frustrated!
It became my mission to figure this love thing out. I spent years studying with world-renowned teachers and coaches who showed me how our nervous systems, inner worlds, pasts, and stories can block us from the very love we seek, and it hit me. You can’t communicate your way out of patterns that are rooted in fear, protection, and misunderstanding.
Fixing your relationship can't be about managing your partner – it has to be about learning to see and soothe the parts of ourselves and each other that are reacting from pain instead of love. I started applying what I learned in my own love life – showing up as grounded, honest, and great at having hard conversations. From that place, I began helping others do the same.
The secret most people have yet to discover? Real love isn't about perfection. It's about presence.
When you learn how to regulate, communicate vulnerably, and own your part, everything changes.
Resentment fades. Closeness returns. And you finally remember what it feels like to be on the same team again.
That's why I created The Relationship Reset: a structured, 12-week coaching journey designed to help growth-oriented, successful couples heal old patterns, feel emotionally safe, and enjoy being more in love than ever.
HOW DOES A RELATIONSHIP RESET WORK?
When you're ready to heal and deepen your connection, we have three Relationship Reset options.
1-ON-1 Coaching
You love your partner and want to improve your relationship, but it's not uncommon for one person in the relationship to want couples coaching while the other is hesitant to get help. The best thing you can do here is clean up your side of the street.
Receive 12 weeks of specific-to-you support developing the self awareness, confidence, emotional intelligence, boundaries, and vulnerable communication skills to be your best self in all your relationships. Let your own growth and development be the catalyst for transformation between you and your partner – and all of life.
RELATIONSHIP RESET LITE
Many couples are doing alright, happy and in love, but they struggle to make time for connection and often bump heads over the same issues repeatedly. For successful, growth-oriented couples who are mutually passionate about learning and growing in ways that nurture their connection, the Relationship Reset Lite is ideal.
Receive 12 weeks of private, tailored-for-you, bi-weekly coaching to develop relational skills that help you both feel seen, heard, and appreciated in your relationship. Learn skills that deepen your connection, enhance your intimate life, dissolve tension, and make conflict repair a breeze.
FULL RELATIONSHIP RESET
No matter how successful you are in every other area of life, there comes a time in every relationship when you both know: things cannot continue this way. The distance between you is growing, you're starting to feel like roommates and life-managing partners instead of lovers, and you've begun to accept that maybe things are just always going to be this way (or worse – you're wondering if maybe you shouldn't be together).
Believe it or not, this relationship season is the one that comes right before the deepest, most passionate, most beautiful season yet — if and only if you act now. Many couples choose to coast and see how things go, which can lead to a long life of mediocre connection and just getting by... or to a painful separation and trying again with another person down the road (warning: you may end up in the same place with a lot of regrets).
The more courageous and rewarding path? Invest in your love with our All-In Relationship Reset. In only 12 weekly coaching sessions, you will both learn how to have the conversations that need to be had, while hearing and deepening closeness instead of creating distance. You'll learn the skills (that none of us were ever taught!) of deep and wonderful connection and forge a stronger and happier love than you ever imagined possible.
Give your love the chance it deserves.
WhAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING AFTER RELATIONSHIP RESET?
After a very turbulent relationship, it felt impossible to understand and manage so many heavy emotions. Coach Kim helped me learn to fully express and embrace my emotions without fear of judgment. She guided me into a deeper awareness and how to let my feelings move through me. I felt so clear after our sessions, with far more capacity and strength moving forward.
~ Jessie G
Coach Kim completely shifted our perspective. After 20 years together, we had built up a lot of resentment and weren't sure if our connection was salveageable. In just 12 weeks, we learned how to talk about the hard things in a way that actually brings us closer! We've fully repaired the old hurts, our connection is deeper, and we're way better at caring for each other. (Our sex life is on fire now, too!)
~ Susan & Daniel
I wasn't comfortable with who I was. I struggled with connection, my emotions, self-acceptance... I knew I needed help and wanted to grow but didn't know how. Coach Kim has this compassionate, graceful (yet direct!) style… she helped me realize: I am not broken or unlovable! I had to get honest with and rediscover my true Self, and Life has been so much better because of our work together.
~ Derrick P
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